Wedding Fashion Trends: Fall 2020

Skirting Tradition with Tiers & Ruffles

Are you craving a long, traditional skirt, but want to spice it up with a little flirtation and fun? Tiers and ruffles can add movement and panache without weighing you down by achieving the volume of a princess gown, but without all of the extra material. Tiers are best paired with ballgown or A-line silhouettes, while ruffles look best with a full skirt or mermaid silhouette. No matter what you do, make sure to take an extra twirl on the dance floor. You owe it to the dress … and to your photographer.

GOWNS: Viktor & Rolf Mariage

Spine-Tingling Design

It’s all in the details is spot on for this new trend walking down the aisle. While an open back is always beautiful, we love the idea of a design element trailing down your spine and elongating your figure. From illusion lace to jewelry and accessories, the trickle-down effect adds a sexy touch to your bridal look.

 

LEFT Viktor & Rolf Mariage

RIGHT Galia Lahav

 

Leather Up

Show the special men in your life you care enough to give them a bloom that won’t lose its blossom. Leather boutonnieres are a contemporary twist on the classic tradition. Pin this lovely leather beauty on the left lapel of all of the very important men in your lives to help them stand out on your big day.

The Groomsman Suit

 

Wearing Your Heart on Your Sleeve

Don’t give your spouse the cold shoulder. From the puffy sleeve to the poem sleeve, from satin to lace, statement arms hit the runway in a big way this year, often elaborating on and adding charm to contemporary, minimalist gowns. Pair it with a trendy one-shoulder neckline for an even more modern take.

Alexandra Grecco

 

 

 

Browse Chicago area bridal fashion here.

Get the Picture: 4 Unique Settings to Consider for Your Photos

Photography by Jasko Omerovic Photography

The city of Chicago is one of the most beautiful places to get married. Your photographer can create jaw-dropping imagery with the city’s gorgeous scenery and backgrounds. And as much as we love the classic wedding day photos, we also want to help you capture those unique settings that speak to you and your fiancé’s one-of-a-kind love. So, let’s create the perfect moment that will have your Instagram followers double-tapping every time.

NATURE

Chicago may not be known for its beautiful nature-scapes, but hidden around our city are some extraordinary and lovely opportunities to incorporate Mother Nature. For instance, finding a hidden gem like Montrose Point Bird Sanctuary can transport you from Chicago’s busy streets to lush greenery and wildlife in the blink of an eye, all while keeping the Chicago skyline in the background. If you and your partner have a special connection to an outdoor location, make sure you snap a picture as a keepsake at that location. Not only does it make a great memory, but it can also help diversify the kinds of photos you decide to display in your album.

WATERFRONT

Lake Michigan creates a beautiful backdrop for any special pictures you have in mind for your big day. But don’t forget places like the Chicago River, with its many bridges, creating a wonderful opportunity to show off not only Chicago’s picturesque waterfronts, but also its gorgeous architecture within the same photograph. With so many access points throughout the city for these two bodies of water, it can seem like your pictures were worlds apart even though they were all within a few miles of each other.

ARTISTIC

While out and about in the city of Chicago, it’s hard to miss the colorful street art on bridges, stairwells and buildings. With so many pieces of unparalleled local street art on display, there’s sure to be a mural for every emotion and every couple!

A good place to start is with Logan Square’s “Greetings from Chicago” mural. Wall murals, along with the many interesting sculptures throughout the city, make it a breeze to add an artistic flair to your wedding photography. The infusion of color and excitement are sure to make photos that will be unique and totally original. Not only will they be cherished but they will also reflect your personality as a couple.

INDUSTRIAL

Adding an industrial ambiance to your pictures is among the easiest on this list. With so many iconic locations, such as right outside the Wrigley building, you can capture Chicago’s brilliant architecture while incorporating the Chicago River into the background. But if you are looking for something more rough-hewn, try using one of the many restored warehouses that are scattered throughout the city or areas below Chicago’s iconic L tracks.

Browse Chicago area photographers here.

Timing is Everything: A Reception Timeline

Written by Kristen Castillo and Kelsey O’Shaughnessy-Podgorski | Photography by Carrie White Photography

Your wedding reception should be a well-timed event. From cocktail hour to dinner and dancing to cutting the cake, everything should run on a precise schedule, which means you need to know what to do and when to do it. This article will break down the reception basics and help you plan your party hour by hour.

GET STARTED EARLY.

Venue setup takes time and should be done well before the party starts. Your reception flowers and centerpieces should be in place at least an hour before the reception starts; the same goes for your wedding cake. Decorative elements like candles, chair covers and linens should be ready to go a day before the wedding. Banquet staff can arrange these elements for you. Then you and your planner can review the look and make any necessary changes the day of your wedding — or even after the rehearsal dinner if everything is in place. If you leave these details to the last minute, you’ll feel hurried and frustrated, especially if something doesn’t go as planned.

HAVE A RECEPTION GAME PLAN.

As with any event, you need to develop and write out a party plan. Make sure each person assigned to a job — from the bartender to the wait staff to the band leader — knows what’s expected of him or her. Write out the plan, review it with your vendors to foresee problems, and then test the plan with a dry run a week before the wedding or more. Part of this plan should involve having a backup in case something doesn’t go as expected.

Meet with your planner a few weeks prior to your big day, so you can map out the celebration hour by hour and area by area. You want to figure out where you and your spouse need to be at all times, plus review reception details like when dinner will be served and small nuances like which tables will get served first. If it helps you and the guests in your wedding party, type up an itinerary so everyone knows what to expect.

DON’T RUSH.

There’s a lot of fun to squeeze into a few hours, but that’s no reason to rush through your wedding reception. No one will have a good time if the event is too structured and everyone feels pressured to stay on schedule. Build some flexibility into your reception so you can let the good times happen naturally.

BREAK IT DOWN HOUR BY HOUR.

While you and your guests may want to boogie until the wee hours of the night, it’s not likely that your venue and catering staff feel the same. A typical wedding reception runs approximately five hours long and has a fairly structured schedule. Your band leader or DJ will serve as the master of ceremonies, or the MC, for the evening. He or she will keep your party moving along smoothly, so no one feels rushed and you don’t run into overtime fees.

Whether you’re looking at a mid- morning reception or an evening affair, here’s a general overview of how it can progress.

HOUR 1: COCKTAIL HOUR

You said, “I do,” kissed and now it’s time for your guests to make their way to the reception. There may be some downtime between, but guests will generally arrive to a cocktail hour pretty quickly after the service. If the ceremony is held at the same venue as the reception, guests may simply venture to another part of the space to continue the festivities.

While the new couple, their attendants and their families are out taking glamour shots, it’s up to the MC to keep guests entertained. Light music in the background allows for socializing without that awkward silence. The MC can also advise guests to begin taking their seats about 10 or 15 minutes before the couple is scheduled to make their grand entrance.

HOUR 2: THE NEWLYWEDS ARRIVE

After the MC guides guests to their seats, the band or DJ will change up the music to indicate that something big is about to happen. The MC will take the mic to start introducing the family and wedding party as they enter. The newlyweds will be announced last — to wild cheers from the crowd, of course. After this, the MC will request that guests take their seats.

This is a great opportunity to move right into your first dance. You have the spotlight, so you may as well use it! When the dance is over, the band or DJ will switch back to some pleasant background music to encourage chatter through dinner. Here’s your chance to start greeting your guests at each table.

A few minutes later, dinner will be served. At this point, take a break and grab a bite. You planned this meal for months! You deserve a few minutes to try it. Let the wedding party and family eat first — especially those who are making speeches. Toasts usually begin about 20 minutes after dinner is served.

Traditionally, toasts are started by the best man, followed by the maid of honor and then the parents’ speeches. If you and your new spouse would like to say a few words, this is a great time for that as well. Be sure to give your MC a list of everyone’s names so he or she can announce each person who will be speaking and their relationship to the couple. Bonus tip: Spelling the names out phonetically will drastically reduce the number of awkward pronunciations.

HOUR 3: DANCE, DANCE, DANCE

After the speeches wrap up, it’s time to hit the dance floor. If you decided not to do your first dance right after your grand entrance, now is the time. Typically, the father-daughter dance follows and then the mother-son dance. After that, your MC will invite guests to join the wedding party on the floor and the party starts.

5 Types of Weddings to Customize Your Day

Written by Emily Conley | Photography by Rachael Schirano Photography

There is no right way to plan a wedding. Seriously, the entire point of your big day is that it is a reflection of you, your partner and the love you share. While a traditional affair speaks to many couples, there’s no reason you can’t design a celebration that makes the two of you happy, no matter how quirky or outside the box it may seem.

We are seeing more and more couples opt for nontraditional wedding ceremonies, receptions or wedding day elements in an effort to personalize their celebration and truly showcase their personality as a couple. If you’re tempted to do something a little unexpected for your big day, we have some ideas (both big and small) for you right here.

ELOPEMENTS

Let’s start with perhaps the most dramatic nontraditional route you can take — eloping. Couples choose to elope for so many reasons and the popularity of this wedding day option is currently on the rise. Maybe you don’t want to spend your money on a typical wedding, or you can’t stand the thought of hundreds of eyes on you as you exchange your vows, or you want your wedding day to feel completely intimate and personal.

What’s great is there are no rules about how and why you decide to elope. Just like with planning a traditional wedding, you should choose what feels right for you and your partner. If you do decide to elope, there are dozens of ways to pull off this more intimate wedding day option. You can select a guest list of just you and your partner, parents and immediate family, or even add a small gathering of close friends.

Once you choose whom to include, you need to decide on a location. The courthouse is historically a popular option, and some cities and towns have city halls or courthouses with stunning architecture if that is important to you. You can also pick a location that is special to you and your partner — a rooftop where you had drinks on your first date, a waterfall you hiked to or a restaurant you both really love. There’s no need to travel to another city or country to pull off the perfect elopement, though that is always an option, too!

Couples who decide to elope should still consider including some elements of a more traditional wedding. At the very least, you should still hire a photographer to capture the event. You’ll want to have photos to share and look back on. You may also want to include a videographer if you want to share your special day with friends and family who may not be included in the event.

If you always dreamed of wearing a fancy white gown or a crisp tux, there’s no reason to not dress up just because you’re eloping. Go as fancy or as casual as you want! Other details you may want to consider include: a bouquet and boutonniere, a small wedding cake or sweet treat and a customized announcement to send out afterward. Some couples choose to celebrate with a small group of close loved ones after a private ceremony. Skipping the traditional big day does not mean you have to pass on everything — include the elements and traditions that feel right to you.

DESTINATION WEDDINGS

If a full-on elopement feels too dramatic, but you are still not digging the traditional wedding day experience, a destination wedding may be just the ticket. Destination weddings lend themselves to smaller affairs as you typically only ask your closest friends and family to spend the time and money required to travel. You may also choose this option for your big day if you want a more laidback, less formal vibe than a traditional wedding venue would provide. If you and your fiancé are from different states or countries, maybe a neutral location makes more sense so as not to unfairly burden one side of the family.

If you decide to host a destination wedding, consider sourcing some wedding vendors from your hometown and bring them with you. A hair and makeup artist who knows your hair and skin, and who can do a trial run with you before the wedding, is invaluable.

You may also want to consider hiring a photographer who is willing to travel with you. This affords you the opportunity to get to know one another during the engagement session, ensuring you feel more comfortable than you would if meeting someone on location the day of your wedding. You almost definitely need to buy your dress at home, well ahead of your wedding date, and be sure to talk to the boutique owner about any concerns with packaging your dress for shipping to your destination.

Benefits of a destination wedding are bountiful: gorgeous photos in exotic locations, a more intimate guest list, a relaxed party vibe and less stress if you book your wedding at a resort that offers a full-fledged wedding coordination package. However, a destination wedding doesn’t come without difficulties. Make sure you know exactly what the legal process is like for obtaining a marriage license if you are in another country, for instance. You may want to also consider staying for a night or two after your wedding, and then booking a separate honeymoon, so you aren’t surrounded by your wedding guests for the entirety of your newlywed vacation.

If you like to be in control of every single detail, a destination wedding could prove challenging, as you’ll likely have to leave a lot of the work up to the professionals on location and trust that it will be what you want when you arrive. If you are aware of these challenges ahead of time and tying the knot somewhere far from home sounds like your cup of tea, then a destination wedding may just be your dream come true.

NONTRADITIONAL RECEPTIONS

For couples who want a more traditional wedding ceremony, but still want to customize their big day in a unique way, a nontraditional reception may be the perfect compromise. Instead of hosting an afternoon or evening reception like usual, couples could choose to have an early-morning ceremony followed by a brunch reception. Similarly, couples could choose to host a later ceremony with a cocktail reception to follow instead of a full dinner reception.

There are specific pros and cons to consider with these nontraditional reception options. A brunch reception is the perfect choice for the couple who wants to eat delicious food and spend time with their wedding guests, but doesn’t want a raucous party. Brunch doesn’t have to mean no alcohol (hello, mimosas and Bloody Marys!), but guests tend to be more subdued and less inclined to tear up the dance floor at 11 a.m. A brunch reception can be laidback or more formal, but you should generally stick with a semiformal dress code at most. An earlier celebration could also allow you to get into more popular venues that may be booked already.

With a cocktail reception, a couple foregoes a full dinner in favor of heavy hors d’oeuvres or passed appetizers. This type of reception can be held in the early afternoon or later evening. If you choose to host a cocktail reception during typical dinner hours (5 to 7 p.m.), you should let guests know on a details card or invitation, so they don’t expect a full dinner. Having food stations or passed apps instead of a plated meal can be a fun alternative to typical wedding food, giving you the opportunity to offer bite-size treats or unexpected fare like tacos or sliders. While some couples choose a cocktail reception as a way to save money, be aware that snack food costs can add up quickly and sometimes end up costing more than a regular dinner.

A cocktail reception is perfect for the couple who wants a less formal vibe. It’s generally easier to mix and mingle with guests when everyone isn’t seated at tables to eat. While standing cocktail tables are perfectly acceptable, make sure you do offer some seating options, especially for older guests and anyone whose feet are tired from standing in heels.

THE WEDDING WEEKEND

While some cultures throw multi-day wedding celebrations as per tradition, the Western or Christian wedding is typically a one-day affair. If you crave the intimacy of an elopement or destination wedding, but also want to celebrate with a larger group, a two- day wedding could be the answer. On the first day, exchange vows in a small ceremony with only your closest friends and family, and then follow up the next day with a larger reception to celebrate!

Or consider including all your guests in a weekend full of festivities. You could have a prewedding ceremony activity on Friday that incorporates a special interest that you and your partner share — kayaking, hiking, golfing, painting or ballroom dancing — and then have your wedding and reception on Saturday. By stretching your wedding celebration over several days, couples can personalize activities and share more time with their guests than just a few hours at a busy reception.

UNEXPECTED WEDDING ELEMENTS

If you read through all of the alternative options above and none feel quite right, you may be interested in planning a more traditional wedding, while including a unique element or two. From wedding attendants to dessert, there are hundreds of ways to customize your wedding and add in a little unexpected flair. To customize your wedding ceremony, you can have a family member marry you for a personal touch. Some couples elect to have their grandmothers toss flowers in lieu of traditional flower girls, and the photos can be cherished for years. Want a unity symbol, but you’re not into the idea of lighting a candle? Switch it up and toast your new spouse with each other’s favorite beer or wine.

You can always use entertainment options to set your big day apart and leave your guests with an experience to remember. Hire a magician or tarot card reader to move between tables. A mariachi band could add a fun touch to cocktail hour. Enlist an Elvis impersonator to serenade guests at the reception or LED robots to spray guests with fog from the dance floor.

When it comes to food and beverages, a food truck reception instead of a typical plated meal or a beverage truck for specialty cocktails is a memorable option. Desserts are easily customizable, too, and there’s no need to even stick to sweets. Couples are opting to cut into things they love — pizza and cheese wheels are two popular choices — instead of traditional cakes. There’s also interactive s’mores bars, donut walls or French crêpes. You can always have a wedding cake and then bring in additional sweets to highlight your culture or favorite desserts.

Never forget that your wedding is a reflection of you and your partner. It’s important that you both feel like your big day is authentic and personal, even if that means flouting tradition or expectations. From solo elopements to an unexpected dessert, there are endless options for customizing your wedding. You just need to decide what feels right and follow your heart — especially if it leads to pizza at your reception, because who doesn’t love a little wedding pizza?

Delicious Decisions: 6 Inspiring Desserts

Whether you prefer a towering six-tier confection or a simple couple’s cake, your wedding dessert deserves to have your personal touch. Choose a style that matches your wedding theme and incorporates your favorite flavors. Even if the size of your guest list changes and you need to scale down, your cake designer can help you determine what works best to create a dessert that not only looks sensational, but tastes scrumptious, too!

Here are some of our favorites, which are sure to have your guests craving another slice.

LEFT: Toni Patisserie & Café | RIGHT: The Quintessential Cake

TOP LEFT: Creative Cakes Bakery | TOP RIGHT: Urban Icing | BOTTOM LEFT: Delish Cakes | BOTTOM RIGHT: Bittersweet

Browse Chicago area bakeries and cake designers here.

5 Ways to Personalize Your Wedding Day Transportation

wedding transportation

Written by E. Ce Miller | Photography Ashley Galminas Photography

Ride In Style

Organizing wedding day transportation isn’t necessarily at the top of every engaged couple’s to-do list. But when the big day finally arrives, the last thing you want to be thinking about is how you and your entire wedding party are getting from the ceremony to the reception — and it’s not a detail you want to leave until the last minute.

The good news is that wedding day transportation doesn’t have to be all about the logistics of getting from Point A to B. With a little thought and advanced planning, you can schedule wedding day transportation that is not only functional, but also fun.

GIVE YOURSELF THE VIP TREATMENT.

If you’re planning a sleek and sophisticated wedding, arranging a fleet of luxury cars or a stretch limo to transport you and your wedding party from the ceremony to the reception may be just the ticket. The tinted windows and bubbly make for a relaxing and refreshing ride, the kind of break you need between saying “I do” and dancing the night away.

GO OLD SCHOOL.

If your wedding has more of a vintage feel, then consider arranging the service of an antique automobile company. For the car-loving couple, classic cars make for some one-of-a-kind wedding snapshots and a once-in-a-lifetime experience. Plus, lots of classic car rental companies have props on hand (think red carpets, roses and parasols) for couples who want their wedding transportation to double as a creative photo opp.

TRY A TROLLEY.

Wedding trolleys are fun, and if you’re trying to transport a lot of your guests at once (or have a lot of folks in the wedding party), a trolley may be the way to go. There’s plenty of space to start the party a little early — so be sure you have a couple bottles of champagne and your dancing shoes on hand.

DO SOMETHING TOTALLY YOU.

Do you and your fiancé love riding motorcycles? Was your first date a tandem bike ride? Did you meet when he spilled coffee on you while riding the Red Line? Consider incorporating something unique and representative of the two of you into your wedding day transportation.

MAKE IT FUN!

If your vendors allow, be sure to bring plenty of champagne, a playlist of your favorite tunes and anything else to make your journey from ceremony to reception a blast.

Browse area transportation vendors here.

Your Wedding Invitation and Stationery Guide

Written by Micaela Fischer | Photography by Cinder and Vinegar Photography

If you’re still buzzing from your engagement high, there’s a good chance you have not given your wedding stationery a great deal of thought yet. Sure, you know the invitations have to go out at some point. But that should be easy enough. After all, your guests just need to know the when and where of your big day, right? If only it were that simple. Believe it or not, there’s more to wedding stationery than just slapping some information on your save-the-dates.

It’s time to demystify this crucial component of your wedding planning so that you are set up for success from the moment you put your first stamp on your save-the-dates until you sign the last of your thank-you notes.

WHAT’S THE BIG DEAL?

Why put so much time and effort into your wedding stationery? For starters, it’s a precious memento you’re likely to keep for the rest of your married life. Plus, it is usually the first major completed milestone in your planning process, as well as one of the last remaining souvenirs after the dust from your wedding finally settles. You want your invitations to be a true reflection of your personalities and set the tone for your wedding celebration.

Furthermore, your invitation suite is the very first element of your wedding that your guests experience. You want to make a good impression. From the moment they open the envelope, your guests are already forming ideas about what your wedding may be like. In other words, your guests take a lot of cues from the kind of stationery you send them.

Stylized script with a sophisticated flourish? They are bound to think formal. Distressed paper with floral prints and twine? Probably going to guess shabby chic. Your stationery can help clue your guests in about what they should wear and even their gift choice. Let the colors and themes of your wedding help guide your design.

INVITATIONS BY THE NUMBERS

Start thinking about how big your guest list is going to be to get an idea of how much stationery you may realistically need. But remember, the number of invites you send out is not equal to the number on your guest list. If you’re inviting 150 guests, you do not need 150 invitations. You probably have a great deal of families and couples that only need one invitation per household.

Also keep in mind, however, that it’s a good idea to have at least five to 10 extra invitations on standby. You never know when you may wake up one night in a cold sweat with the sinking realization that you completely forgot to invite dear Aunt Martha up in Minnesota. If such an occasion arises, those extra invitations are going to be a lifesaver and can help you avoid the unnecessary costs associated with multiple invitation orders. But apart from any last-minute stragglers, you also want to make sure you have a few copies of your stationery suite to save for yourself. When your wedding day finally arrives, don’t forget to grab one to be photographed at your venue!

TACKLING THE TIMELINE

While you may be chomping at the bit to get your stationery suite underway, you’re probably wondering when exactly you should get the ball rolling. Traditionally, save-the-dates are sent out eight to 12 months before the wedding date. Don’t send save-the- dates to guests unless you are certain fthat you are inviting them to your wedding. Your more formal invitations are typically mailed about eight to 10 weeks before the wedding — but this is not a hard and fast rule. If you are planning on having a destination affair, for example, informing your guests earlier is always appreciated so that appropriate travel arrangements can be made.

Consult your vendors to see when they need a final head count and then tack on a few extra weeks to give yourself some leeway. As much as we would all love for people to RSVP on time, chances are you’re going to have to do some last-minute follow up with some of your less punctual guests. When you finally send out your invitations, consider any elections or holidays that may slow down delivery. You may have to bump back your mail- out date to make sure your invitations arrive on time. The same applies to guests who live abroad.

Today, it’s rare to find a couple who has a complete list of contact information and addresses for their entire family and friend group. To ensure you’re ready to go when it’s time to send the save-the- dates, make sure to start gathering information early. Your parents and grandparents can be great resources when collecting names and addresses. And don’t be afraid to give someone a call to make sure you have the proper address. It saves time in the long run by preventing you from getting the ever-dreaded returned invitation with little time to get the address right before your wedding.

WHAT’S INCLUDED?

The shining star of your wedding stationery, the invitation suite is a package that includes the design of your invitations, as well as all of the little details that make them uniquely beautiful (every tie, every ribbon and every stroke of the fountain pen). Your invitation suite includes an outer envelope, many times an unsealed inner envelope, the invitation, a details card, a response card and a response card envelope. Additional materials like printed maps, menu cards and hotel information can also be included in your suite.

It can be a bit overwhelming, so let’s break down the basics:

  • Envelope – Use an outer and inner envelope to identify the invited guests.
  • Invitation – Indicate the who, what, when and where of your big day.
  • Details Card – Include your hotel accommodation information, wedding website and additional guest information. Split into multiple cards if needed.
  • Response Card – Give guests a way to RSVP to your wedding. It can also be used to gather dinner selections and the number of guests attending from each household.
  • Response Card Envelope – Include postage for guests and the host’s address on the envelope. You want to make sure your guests can reply to your big day as easily as possible.

When placing the invitation suite into the main envelope, all elements should be on top of one another according to size, with the smallest pieces in the front and the largest pieces in the back. Slide everything into the envelope with all text facing upward so that when recipients open your invitation, they are able to read it with ease.

Once your invitation suite is ready to drop in the mail, take a sample invitation to your local post office to verify if additional postage is required prior to mailing them out. Depending on the size, shape and weight of your invitation, additional postage may be required. The last thing you want is to come home to a mailbox full of returned invitations since you didn’t include enough postage.

After your invitations are sent, there are a few other elements you may want to think about to round out your wedding stationery. These elements include your ceremony programs, table cards, seating chart, menus, favor tags, as well as your thank-you notes. Work with your stationer to keep your overall look and design consistent throughout your big day.

WHEN THE UNEXPECTED HAPPENS

If you find yourself needing to postpone your wedding due to the uncertainty surrounding a public health crisis or another unexpected emergency, don’t fret! You can handle this hiccup with determination and grace.

It is now commonplace to either issue a new save-the-date if you haven’t already sent out your formal suite of invitations, or send out an updated postcard or invitation with a new date if you have sent out your formal invitation suite. Make sure to have open communication and let your guests know as soon as possible if the date is changing.

On the updated invitation, it is also a good idea to direct guests to your wedding website in case there are further adjustments. Situations can change in an instant and you may find that your postponement turns into a smaller celebration than you originally anticipated. It never hurts to follow up with a courtesy call as well, especially if the timing of the postponement or change is getting uncomfortably close to your original date.

DON’T FORGET THE THANK-YOUS

Although it may seem like a tedious task, it’s incredibly important to send a thank-you note to all of your guests no more than three months after your celebration. These should be personalized, handwritten notes to show your love and appreciation for everyone who made your wedding such a special event. Take this time to thank everyone individually not only for their kind gifts, but also for all of the amazing memories they helped you make. Don’t forget to send thank-you notes to your vendors as well! After all, they were instrumental in making sure your wedding day was perfect, too.

Hand-writing every single thank- you note may sound like an endless endeavor, but it doesn’t have to be distressing. Try carving out a time each week after your wedding when you can get a handful of them completed. Writing them in increments is much easier than trying to get them done in one fell swoop. You may even turn an otherwise dull job into a sweet activity to do with your new spouse over Saturday morning coffee.

While there is a lot involved in creating your wedding stationery, the process doesn’t have to be overwhelming. Find a professional stationer who can give you the customized invitation suite you envision. He or she can guide you through the process from concept to delivery. Set yourself up for success by getting a head start and taking things one step at a time, and you will be sure to get your guests’ seal of approval.

Love Letters

Before heading to the mailbox, read these helpful tips to avoid any costly missteps with your wedding stationery.

INVITATION SUITE

Not every couple opts to include all of these items, but this comprehensive list gives you a place to start. Add ribbon, wax seals and other details for a finishing touch.

  • Outer envelope
  • Unsealed inner envelope
  • Envelope liner
  • Invitation
  • Reception Details card
  • Guest Accommodations card
  • Custom map
  • Reply card
  • Reply envelope, with postage

DAY-OF WEDDING STATIONERY

Work with your stationer to create on-brand material for a cohesive look throughout your wedding.

  • Ceremony program
  • Seating chart
  • Favor tags
  • Menus
  • Table numbers
  • Place cards
  • Thank-you notes

Browse invitation & stationary vendors here.

Not a Hair Out of Place: Beauty Trial Tips

Written by Christina Oddo & Yanira Garza | Photography by Ashley Galminas Photography

The flower arrangements are full, fresh and overwhelmingly gorgeous. The band sounds heavenly. And the groom, handsome as ever, awaits his bride. Yet as she heads down the aisle, something seems slightly off…

Hair and makeup are a critical part of your bridal look, but countless brides make the mistake of waiting until it’s too late to test out their desired style. The result of skipping your beauty trials? Unexpected fashion disasters. Whether it’s your bright red lipstick looking more cartoonish than sultry or your towering updo getting mistaken for a bobby pin arts-and- crafts project gone wrong, almost all beauty disasters can be avoided by scheduling a hair and makeup trial three to six months before your wedding. In addition to acting as an interview for your glam squad, trials are a chance for both you and your beauty professionals to work out any kinks before the big day arrives. Still not convinced? Read on to learn more about beauty trials and how they’re essential to perfecting your wedding day look.

FIND A TEAM OF PROS.

You found what you think may be the perfect salon; now it’s time to book a hair and makeup trial appointment.

You wouldn’t head out on a road trip without making sure that your car was good to go, right? Believe it or not, the same logic applies to your wedding hair and makeup. No matter how many inspiration images you show up with on the morning of your wedding, the only way to guarantee you get that perfect Adriana Lima smoky eye (and that you like the way it looks on you) is to test it out way ahead of time.

All reputable beauty stylists should be more than happy to set up a trial or consultation prior to your wedding day. After all, some wedding styles can get really complicated, especially if you want an updo complete with braids, curls or bobby pins galore. In addition to it being proper industry practice, trials actually take a load of stress off your stylists as well. By meeting with brides ahead of time, stylists are able to come up with a look that they know is doable and that you know you love. If you’re working with professionals, your beauty trials should be a fun and informative experience that gets you all the more excited for your wedding day.

START PREPPING.

All hair and makeup trials are slightly different because no two stylists are alike, but there are a few rules that ring true across the board. When it comes to scheduling, give your stylists ample time to test out multiple looks, and block out about one or two hours for the trial. Another important step is to come to the appointment with ideas, but try not to overwhelm your stylists. Bring a few inspiration images for both hair and makeup, but don’t show up with an entire scrapbook of looks. Limit yourself to a few favorites and let your stylists take the lead from there.

If you book a makeup trial, arrive with a fresh, clean face. Put on a little moisturizer if it’s part of your routine, but don’t coat your face in anything heavy or oily. It’s also a great idea to bring some of your beauty staples along with you in a small toiletry bag, especially if you have sensitive skin and are worried about the stylist using new products on you. In addition to giving your stylist a better idea of what your makeup must-haves are, asking him or her to incorporate a few items from your personal stash can give you that extra level of comfort.

If the trial is with a hair stylist, resist the urge to show up to the appointment with squeaky clean locks. Hair styling actually works best on day-old hair, so stay away from shampoo (yes, even dry shampoo) and other sprays the day of your trial. Then again, although most stylists recommend that you come with day-old hair, some prefer to work with clean hair. Make sure to ask your stylist’s preference a few days before your appointment.

Do you have a beautiful hair piece or veil you want to incorporate into your look? Bring any and all crowns, fascinators, veils and other wedding hair accessories you’re considering along to your trial. The morning of your wedding is not the time for your stylist to figure out how to secure your pearl tiara, so make life easier on both of you by giving your stylist a chance to play around with your accessories well before the big day.

THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX.

If you’ve ever wanted to experiment with a certain makeup look or hairstyle, consider testing it out during your trial. Now is the time to play around with false lashes, hair extensions and other beauty boosters you may have been too shy to try out in the past. Keep in mind that one of the most important parts of stepping outside of your comfort zone is being able to speak up and be honest. If you hate the way false lashes look on you, politely tell your stylist that you aren’t so crazy about them after all. A professional doesn’t get upset or offended. Instead, he or she is going to see your honesty as a sign of trust, not a knock on talent. Good beauty stylists care about perfecting your bridal look just as much as you do. Both of you want to make sure you feel confident and beautiful on your wedding day. The only way you’re both going to achieve that goal is if you’re open to new ideas, but also comfortable giving honest feedback.

ONE AND DONE … MAYBE.

Not 100% satisfied with your look post- consultation? It’s time to walk away. It’s not always easy, but think of it this way: If you aren’t totally in love with your look on your wedding day, you can’t reschedule the wedding and try again on a different day. The good news, though, is more often than not, most brides find themselves content with how their trial went.

If you fall into this happy category, but want to give your stylists the chance to work with you a few more times before the wedding, consider having them do your hair and makeup for your engagement shoot, bridal showers, bach party or other wedding events. The more your stylists understand your hair and skin, the happier you’re going to be with the way your wedding day look turns out. Whether you’re using your tried and true hairdresser, or you’re testing out a brand-new stylist, giving him or her the chance to work with you prior to your wedding day is essential. No matter how well you think the stylists know you or how highly your friends recommended them, it’s critical that you build a relationship with your stylists and ensure that they’re the perfect fit for your wedding day.

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What to Consider When Picking Your Wedding Flowers

Written by Stephanie Jewell | Photography by Rachael Schirano Photography

Believe it or not, your choice of flowers may be one of the most impactful aspects of your wedding décor. Flowers have the power to really set the mood and evoke a magical atmosphere. The bridal bouquet is the floral element that everyone is sure to notice — the guests are going to be giving you all of their attention as you walk down the aisle and your bouquet is going to be right there with you, front and center.

Thinking through your bridal bouquet can be a great way to begin the process of determining your overall floral design. But it’s not as simple as just picking out a few kinds of flowers you like and leaving it at that. Did you know that there are several different shapes for bouquets? Are you thinking about any extras you may want to incorporate into your floral arrangements? Do you know which members of your wedding party get flowers? Your florist can walk you through all of these details, but coming in with a few ideas of what you may want is always helpful.

A SHAPE FOR EVERY STYLE

First things first — what style of bouquet do you want? Your florist may tell you that there are many ways to customize your bouquet to your style and shape is one of them. Ask to see examples of different kinds of bouquets and look at plenty of pictures ahead of time to get to know your preferences. Bring several photos to your floral appointment. You may not know the name of every flower or arrangement technique, but a picture is worth a thousand words!

If you’re looking for a larger bouquet, there are several options to consider. For a dramatic look, choose the cascading style, which includes longer flowers and greenery spilling out and down from the center to create a voluminous waterfall effect. Another related style is the pageant (sometimes called presentation) style, which features long-stemmed flowers gathered together, meant to rest in the crook of your arm. You can also opt for the hand- tied style, which features a mix of flowers and greenery loosely tied together with a visible ribbon or twine, achieving an organic “freshly picked” boho look.

For the classic bride, the round shape is timeless, featuring one or two types of flowers gathered in an arrangement that looks good from any angle, with stems wrapped completely in ribbon or with other adornments. Brides wanting a smaller bouquet can opt for the nosegay or posy style, which tends to feature just one or two types of flowers in a small rounded bundle that can easily be held in one hand. This look is popular for bridesmaids, leaving one hand free so they can help the bride with anything and everything in a pinch!

Shape is not the only physical element you have to take into account when thinking about your bouquet. You also have to pay attention to how big the bouquet is in relation to your body. For taller brides, the sky’s the limit — go for a cascading look or an overflowing bundle if you want. For shorter brides, it’s best to go for a smaller look. You don’t want your flowers to overshadow your face or cover up a large portion of your dress!

MATCH YOUR LOOK

Your bouquet never stands alone — it is always seen with your wedding gown as a backdrop. Because of this, it’s important to match your bouquet to the style of your dress. If you are wearing a more ornate dress, full of beading or intricately patterned lace, think about choosing a simpler bouquet so that your dress takes the spotlight. This may mean that you choose one color for the flowers or use fewer blooms. With a more modern, simple gown, you can either match the minimalistic look with a simple bouquet or you can go a bit more dramatic with the flowers. If you’d like the bouquet to take center stage, go ahead and mix many different kinds of flowers or use several colors together.

When you meet with your florist, be sure to bring along fabric swatches or detailed photos from your dress and your bridesmaids’ dresses. That way, he or she can see the exact color palette. For instance, your florist may use a different shade of flower to match a champagne- colored dress than he or she would for a bright white dress. And a pink bridesmaid dress may mean something quite different to you than to your florist.

Besides matching your general aesthetic, you want your flowers to make sense given your venue and the time of day you’re holding your wedding. An outdoor daytime wedding is perfect for bright and sunny blooms like sunflowers, tulips and peonies. The sunlight and open spaces allow those flowers to shine!

In contrast, if you’re having an evening wedding indoors, you need to keep in mind how your bouquet may look under the venue’s lighting and alongside the interior décor of the space. Does the lighting in your tall and spacious church allow all the details in your bouquet to be noticed? Is there colored carpet, tile or draping in your hotel ballroom? All your wedding plans should intertwine in some way or another. While you don’t need to necessarily match your flowers to the design elements of your space, it’s good to be mindful of them so they don’t clash with each other.

SEASONAL BLOOMS

No matter what aesthetic you are going for, the time of year that your celebrations occur play a huge part in your flower choices. If you have your heart set on daffodils, hosting your wedding in the fall is not going to bode well for your floral hopes. While many flowers are available throughout a large part of the year, there are some specialty blooms that you can only get during one season. Talk to your florist about which flowers you have in mind, and be ready to take his or her suggestions for alternative blooms that give you the look you’re going for. For instance, garden roses or hydrangeas can often substitute for peonies, which are beautiful, but only available for a very short amount of time.

Don’t think about seasonal availability as a limitation — embrace it! Try not to get attached to the particulars. Once you give your florist some inspiration photos and color schemes, let him or her run wild and use their professional knowledge to work floral magic. Chances are, your florist achieves a look that goes beyond your expectations.

WHO GETS WHAT?

After you decide on the shape, size and blooms for your bridal bouquet, you need to think about flowers for the other people who are helping you celebrate your big day. Of course, the bride gets the most dazzling bouquet, but who else gets bouquets, corsages and boutonnieres?

There are no hard and fast rules for this, so choose whomever you would like! But keep reading for some of the traditional guidelines.

BOUQUETS

Typically, each bridesmaid gets a bouquet that mimics or takes inspiration from the bride’s bouquet. You never run out of great photo ops when you and all your friends have beautiful blooms to show off. If your flower girl doesn’t have anything else in her hands (like a basket or a sign), it’s a cute idea to give her a mini bouquet as well. She’d love being your mini-me!

CORSAGES

Corsages are meant for the women in your family or any woman you would like to honor, including ceremony readers and other guests who have a special place in your big day. Whether you give corsages only to immediate family members (such as mothers and grandmothers) or you offer them to all your important cousins and aunts, be sure you are consistent with providing them to relatives on both sides of your families. You don’t want anyone to feel left out.

You may see women wearing corsages in different ways — some pinned onto dresses, mimicking how men wear boutonnieres. Many women pin the corsage on the left shoulder of their dress. But they may worry about snagging or ruining a delicate gown. An alternative is to opt for a bracelet-style corsage that is typically worn on the left wrist. Or you can ask your florist if he or she offers a magnetic option to minimize the risk of damage to expensive fabric.

Both wrist and pinned versions can look beautiful, so it’s best to go with whatever makes your special ladies feel most comfortable. You may find it helpful to talk to the mothers to see which style they would prefer and which option they think would work best for everyone.

BOUTONNIERES

Grooms and groomsmen typically wear boutonnieres, also known as buttonholes, which are pinned to their left lapel. But other men involved in your wedding can receive boutonnieres as well, including fathers and grandfathers of the couple, ushers, other family members and even the ring bearer. This is a special way to give a small thanks to the important men in your life.

SPECIAL TOUCHES

It’s easy to overlook the way your bouquet is held together, but don’t forget the finishing touches. Most bouquet styles have visible stems, which means that your wrap choice matters, and personalizing this part of your bouquet opens the door for creativity and allows you to show off what makes you unique.

The standard option for wrapping your stems is a satin ribbon in the color of your choice. But why not go beyond the traditional look? You can choose other materials to wrap your bouquet. Try burlap or twine if your wedding is rustic, velvet if you’re going for a elegant theme or lace from your mother’s wedding dress for a personal tribute.

Another way to upgrade your bouquet is to attach glitz or family heirlooms to the wrap. Going for a glamorous aesthetic? Ask your florist to attach some sparkly accessories like gemstone brooches or appliques. Or perhaps you’d like to honor your family history by incorporating some heirlooms into your bouquet. It could be a piece of your grandmother’s handkerchief, a locket passed down from generation to generation or even cufflinks from someone special.

After the celebrations are over, consider preserving your flowers so that you can insert them into a scrapbook or keep them as a token from your special day. Of course, there are professionals who can preserve your flowers to ensure the best quality. Do some research for the best professional preservationist that can encapsulate your flowers and wedding day memories for years to come.

Your bridal bouquet is one of the most visible aspects to your wedding day look, so take the time to think through all of your available options! Your florist can be a wealth of knowledge for you as you decide on all of the details. Remember to take advantage of him or her as a valuable resource as much as possible. By putting in extra love and effort, you can add major floral flair to your big day.

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7 Things to Consider for Your Wedding Ceremony

Written by Emma Sarran Webster | Photography by Carrie White Photography

While every couple’s wedding is unique, when it comes to planning the big day, it often seems that a large amount of focus and energy goes toward planning the perfect reception. Of course, the reception and all of its intricacies are indeed a big undertaking — but it’s only one part of your wedding day. The reception is a celebration of the ceremony that precedes it, and planning the ceremony takes time and effort as well. As you work toward putting together your perfect day, consider these seven key ceremony aspects.

1. THE ANGLES

Many ceremonies have a pretty standard setup: the couple and officiant are up front, the wedding party is on both sides and the guests are seated in rows (typically with an aisle in between). But that doesn’t mean every ceremony has to look that way. Depending on your venue, the layout could be slightly different. Make sure you discuss exactly how you envision everything laying out and how it may look with either your wedding planner or the venue manager prior to booking.

Some questions you may consider asking include: Where will you and your officiant stand? Will you be elevated slightly above your guests on a platform or on the same level? Where will your wedding party stand or sit? Where will your guests sit? Will everyone be able to see the action? It’s worth having a conversation with your photographer and videographer once you have the concept of the ceremony layout decided, so they can ensure they’re able to get the photographs and video they need.

2. THE DURATION

If you’re following a fairly traditional ceremony (such as a religious one), the length may be dictated by the predetermined elements of that ceremony. If not, it’s a good idea to consider how long you ideally want your ceremony to last before figuring out the individual parts of it. Do you want it to be a short and sweet 20 minutes, so you can quickly get your guests to cocktail hour? Or do you want to take more time — perhaps 45 minutes to an hour — to incorporate more involved components that are important to you and your partner?

Keep in mind that the length of the ceremony affects the rest of your schedule as well. When deciding on ceremony length, try mapping out a rough itinerary for the day by working backward from your reception. If the ceremony is 45 minutes, for example, what time will you need to start in order to get you and your guests to the reception on time? If the ceremony and reception are at the same venue, what time will you need to start to ensure the cocktail hour starts on time?

3. THE ORDER OF EVENTS

If you are putting together your ceremony without following a predetermined layout, it’s up to you to decide the order of events. Some of the most traditional elements of a ceremony include the processional, the officiant’s greeting and message to the couple, the declaration of intent, the readings, the vows, the exchange of rings, the pronouncement of marriage, the kiss, and the recessional. There are of course certain components that clearly fit into certain spots, but you have some freedom with the order of the ceremony, after all, it’s your ceremony. While you may find that plenty of couples do the declaration of intent immediately before the vows, for example, it’s completely fine to swap those two, or include a reading in between. You can intersperse a few readings throughout the ceremony or have them read consecutively. Try “storyboarding” the ceremony: write each element on a small piece of paper, lay them out in order, and then play around with them until you find an order that feels right for you and your partner.

4. THE EVENTS THEMSELVES

One of the most fun parts of planning your ceremony is deciding what elements you’ll include. Again, there are plenty of traditional components to a wedding ceremony, but you can decide which of those to use and not use, as well as any additional “events” you may fancy. The decisions can be based on whether the ceremony is religious, non-denominational, or perhaps a fusion of two different cultures. The ceremony can be based on what speaks to you and what best represents you as a couple. For example, you may want to include a memorial to loved ones, a thank you to your guests, a “Blessing of the Hands,” or a musical performance, the options are limitless.

Customize the content and wording of your big day as you would like. Don’t feel constrained to only the most common wedding readings. For example, if you want someone to recite the lyrics of your favorite song, go for it! And when it comes to things like the declaration of intent, there are many variations your officiant can use leading up to the “I do”. Browse online and find versions that really speak to you. Many people choose to incorporate a mini “unity ceremony” within the larger ceremony. If you go that route, consider what style of unity ceremony you would like – such as mixing two different colors of sand into one glass vase or using two separate candles to light one unity candle simultaneously.

5. THE MUSIC

There are a few things to think about when it comes to ceremony music. First, decide where you want music to be incorporated into your ceremony. Will it only be during the processional and recessional? Do you want anything to play softly in the background of events like the unity ceremony or ring exchange? Do you want to include a vocal or instrumental performance in the middle? Once you’ve made those decisions, you can move on to choosing the tunes and how the music will be played (such as live instrumentals via a string quartet or harp, a live vocalist, or recordings played over a speaker). If you’re working with a musician, they can likely play you some samples to help you decide your song selections.

6. THE PARTICIPANTS

The participants include the usual suspects: you, your future spouse, and your officiant, of course. But, who else will be involved in your ceremony? What roles will your wedding party play in the ceremony? Will they stand the entire time on either side of you or will they sit in the front row? Are there any additional tasks you need to assign them (like holding bouquets or rings)? Beyond the wedding party, consider how you might incorporate other important people into your ceremony. Perhaps you’ll have two parents light the individual candles ahead of the unity ceremony or ask a close friend to do a reading.

7. THE PHYSICAL ELEMENTS

Think about what types of physical elements to include in your ceremony. Will you get married under a chuppah or a wedding canopy? If so, plan ahead to secure the purchase or rental of the structure along with any additional components, like silk draping or an additional floral display. Don’t forget to confirm the logistics of delivery, set up, and break down. Then, there are the smaller pieces such as an aisle runner, a microphone, and a table for the unity ceremony. Many items like candles, chairs for your musicians, programs, as well as a card box may seem like small details that can be figured out last minute, but those small details can add up to big headaches when you’re trying to take care of them the week of your wedding. Get ahead of it by making a list early on, checking off when you acquire the items, and then delegating the plan to get each item to the ceremony on time.

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Music to Your Ears: Creating the Perfect Wedding Soundtrack

Written by Emma Sarran Webster | Photography by Jasko Omerovic Photography

Hitting the Right Note

Music has a powerful way of conveying feelings and emotions. You know that one song that comes on the radio? Yeah, that song. The one that you have to stop what you’re doing to belt out the lyrics, reliving your college glory days? Well, now it’s time to think about what song you want to turn on to take you back in time to your first dance with your new spouse. This significant moment, among many others, will stand out to you as you look back on your big day.

By working closely with the musicians or DJ that you have chosen, you can craft the perfect soundtrack for your special day from the prelude at the ceremony to the last dance at the reception.

PRELUDE

Think of it as welcoming music. This is the music that is played as your guests arrive to the ceremony and find their seats. You should plan for about 30 minutes of prelude music to play in the background before the first person walks down the aisle. Many couples choose selections that incorporate harmonious music, instrumental tracks or soft acoustic songs. As you pick these melodies, remember that the prelude music will be among the first details to set the mood and tone of your big day.

WEDDING PARTY PROCESSIONAL

This processional is played when your wedding party and certain family members, like parents and grandparents, walk down the aisle. The processional music not only helps build anticipation and excitement for your entrance, but also sets the tone for the entire ceremony. A classical song like “Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring,” for example, can set the stage for a traditional Christian ceremony. If you’re planning an upbeat, unconventional ceremony, you can go the route of a modern pop song to let your guests know this wedding will be a more contemporary celebration from start to finish. Of course, you can also land somewhere in the middle, picking a song that holds meaning for you and your loved ones like a mellow, contemporary ballad.

Try to make sure that whatever you pick is different enough from the prelude music (which plays when guests are filtering in) so that everyone knows it’s officially time to start.

PRIMARY PROCESSIONAL

The moment the couple walks down the aisle is an immense one and music plays a big part in conveying the emotion that comes with it. A selection like “Canon in D” beautifully communicates a feeling of romance for both traditional and more contemporary ceremonies. But if you want to personalize this moment even more, you can choose a tune that holds personal significance to you, like the first song you ever danced to as a couple or one with lyrics that really speak to your relationship.

The primary processional music does not have to be different from the wedding party’s processional. If there is one song that speaks to you for both, feel free to stick with it, but consider pinpointing a spot within the music (such as a big crescendo or a key change) that adds an extra “oomph” to your entrance. If you use a song with lyrics, make sure you closely review what they are ahead of time. Plenty of breakup songs are set to beautiful melodies, and that’s not exactly something you want playing at your wedding.

RECESSIONAL

The recessional song, which begins when you and your new spouse walk back down the aisle, tends to be more celebratory and upbeat than the processionals. It’s the score behind the first steps you will take as a newly married couple and it begins the transition from your ceremony to your reception. Mendelssohn’s “Wedding March” is one of the most traditional tunes for this occasion as it imparts the importance of the moment with powerful beats.

There are plenty of other directions you can take depending on your personalities and the style of your wedding, though. For example, The Beatles’ “Here Comes the Sun” is a less emphatic, but equally joyful tune, and American Authors’ “Best Day of My Life” is perfect for the couple who loves a contemporary twist.

RECEPTION ENTRANCE

Your first official introduction to your guests as a newly married couple is during your recessional, but your entrance to the reception heralds the true start of the celebration. The music that plays when you and your new spouse walk into the room, and join your waiting guests sets the mood for the rest of the reception. For the rest of the night, your guests will take their cues from you, so if you are sending a message that says, “Let’s party and have fun!” they will heed it and join right in.

FIRST DANCE

Of all the musical moments throughout your wedding day, your first dance is perhaps the one that most clearly conveys who you are as a couple. All eyes will be on you, and while your dance moves play a part in showing your guests

your style, it’s the music that you are dancing to that really sends the message. An upbeat ‘90s classic, for example, can symbolize your quirkiness and lightheartedness, while an emotional ballad may represent your enduring love through good times and bad. Of course, choosing an upbeat song doesn’t mean you don’t have enduring love and vice versa. If you are having trouble deciding on a song, consider the overall vibe of your wedding and which of your top choices may fit that best.

FINAL SONG

After many emotional and joyful hours, your wedding day will finally come to a close. Just as the first song sets the tone for the reception, the last song punctuates that feeling upon your exit. It’s the last thing your guests will hear (and dance to!) before they leave. They may carry the feeling of that song with them as one of the strongest memories of your entire reception.

As with the other song selections, consider your personalities and the overall wedding vibe. You can choose to end the night on a romantic note with a sentimental ballad, such as “At Last” by Etta James, to represent your love. Or, you can conclude on a celebratory note with a high-energy song, such as “Shout” by The Isley Brothers, to get everyone on the dance floor one last time, or you can have the best of both worlds with a cheeky classic, such as “(I’ve Had) The Time of My Life” by Bill Medley and Jennifer Warnes. Have fun with this one — pick something that will send you and your guests off smiling.

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Style Trend: Luxe Textures

When it comes to wedding décor, color isn’t the only element that pops. Make sure to include multiple fiber textures such as velvet or woven fabrics, and fun patterns such as stripes or checks. For some extra flair, add some dimension by playing with candle and floral centerpieces at varying heights.

  1. Event Styling: Rustique Swan Event Design & Curated Decor
  2. Linens: F&S Linens
  3. Candleholders: West Elm
  4. Escort Cards: Nerissa B. Modern Calligraphy
  5. Settee: Chicago Vintage Weddings
  6. Dried Sun Palms: Afloral.com